Dear future husband,
Some where out there you are waiting for me while I write my thoughts for the world to see.
Below you will find a list of things I am some what embarrassed to admit that I need..
One: When you finally meet me and decide you want to marry me please do ask my father and mother for my hand in marriage. I know we don't live in a society where that would be considered as a norm more so old fashion if anything. How ever I want to know that you respect their wishes and respect them enough to ask them for my hand in marriage before you even ask me.
Second: on my list would be for your mother to love me. I say this because; to me family is more important than anything in this world. And to have a good relationship with your mother would mean the world to me. Not only will it bring you peace of mind but it would make our relationship stronger in the long run. We don't have to be attached at the hip or best friends but I want her to like me for who I am and for the mere fact that you have chosen to spend your life with me. So I'm hoping you aren't the type to hide behind her skirt and stand up for me and show her just how good of a woman I am.
Third on my list would have to be affection. Please tell me you love me or write it on a post it note. I find these small gestures of romance utterly heart warming. I am in love with words and a simple "i love you" on a post it note or "you're beautiful" makes my day. Even an email while Im at home with our many children or a text message will also do.
Fourth: As a woman I will most likely take up all the drawers in the bathroom and the shelves in the shower. I will probably have a ton of make up, 10 different kinds of hair brushes and combs, a drawer full of lipstick, one for eye shadows, one for random things, and another drawer full of lotion. Now moving on to the shower I will most likely have 2 bottles of body wash, 4 different types of shampoos and conditioners I alternate on a day to day basis, and 2 different kinds of face wash. So i please ask you to kindly tolerate and accept that come with all sorts of goodies as I would like to call it; that will drive you insane.
Fifth: To always be able to keep up with my rabbit tendencies. And I say this with a huge smile on my face. There are going to be times where you're tired or I'm tired but regular intimacy is huge for me. I don't ever want to be one of those couples who forgets its important to be intimate on a day to day basis no matter how tough life gets. Also please understand I want lots of babies.. God willing... Even though I am 2 years away from being 30 and not yet married I am hoping to at least push out a few so we can have a mini soccer team. (And I say that with a straight face) In return I promise to always take care of my self and never let the daily hustle of life drag me down to the point I forget to shave my legs or look some what attractive for you to come home to.
Six: Always be honest with me! No if, and's or buts! - If I'm starting to look fat please tell me! If you are no longer happy which I hope never happens please tell me. I will in return promise to always be honest with you about everything. (you may not like it but at least we were honest in the end)
Seven: You'll probably laugh while reading what I have next in line... But keep in mind even though I may be a strong woman I also have this side of me which could also melt in the palm of your hand. .. and to understand that I will most likely 110% cry during all movies or TV shows anything that touches my heart will make me shed some tears.. so accept me for who I am and don't laugh, just lend me your shirt to dry my tears after I make you watch the Notebook for the 10th time.
Eight: Last but not least, life is very short and I have had enough bad experiences with relationships and I have seen my parents get divorced and I have seem them give up during the hardest times. So dear future husband I vow to always always always stand by your side through the ups and downs through anything God might throw our way. I will always fight for us and I will never give up and I am hoping you can do the same...*well actually I need you to do the same.
And that pretty much sums up what I need from you.
Love Always Your Future Wife
Some where out there you are waiting for me while I write my thoughts for the world to see.
Below you will find a list of things I am some what embarrassed to admit that I need..
One: When you finally meet me and decide you want to marry me please do ask my father and mother for my hand in marriage. I know we don't live in a society where that would be considered as a norm more so old fashion if anything. How ever I want to know that you respect their wishes and respect them enough to ask them for my hand in marriage before you even ask me.
Second: on my list would be for your mother to love me. I say this because; to me family is more important than anything in this world. And to have a good relationship with your mother would mean the world to me. Not only will it bring you peace of mind but it would make our relationship stronger in the long run. We don't have to be attached at the hip or best friends but I want her to like me for who I am and for the mere fact that you have chosen to spend your life with me. So I'm hoping you aren't the type to hide behind her skirt and stand up for me and show her just how good of a woman I am.
Third on my list would have to be affection. Please tell me you love me or write it on a post it note. I find these small gestures of romance utterly heart warming. I am in love with words and a simple "i love you" on a post it note or "you're beautiful" makes my day. Even an email while Im at home with our many children or a text message will also do.
Fourth: As a woman I will most likely take up all the drawers in the bathroom and the shelves in the shower. I will probably have a ton of make up, 10 different kinds of hair brushes and combs, a drawer full of lipstick, one for eye shadows, one for random things, and another drawer full of lotion. Now moving on to the shower I will most likely have 2 bottles of body wash, 4 different types of shampoos and conditioners I alternate on a day to day basis, and 2 different kinds of face wash. So i please ask you to kindly tolerate and accept that come with all sorts of goodies as I would like to call it; that will drive you insane.
Fifth: To always be able to keep up with my rabbit tendencies. And I say this with a huge smile on my face. There are going to be times where you're tired or I'm tired but regular intimacy is huge for me. I don't ever want to be one of those couples who forgets its important to be intimate on a day to day basis no matter how tough life gets. Also please understand I want lots of babies.. God willing... Even though I am 2 years away from being 30 and not yet married I am hoping to at least push out a few so we can have a mini soccer team. (And I say that with a straight face) In return I promise to always take care of my self and never let the daily hustle of life drag me down to the point I forget to shave my legs or look some what attractive for you to come home to.
Six: Always be honest with me! No if, and's or buts! - If I'm starting to look fat please tell me! If you are no longer happy which I hope never happens please tell me. I will in return promise to always be honest with you about everything. (you may not like it but at least we were honest in the end)
Seven: You'll probably laugh while reading what I have next in line... But keep in mind even though I may be a strong woman I also have this side of me which could also melt in the palm of your hand. .. and to understand that I will most likely 110% cry during all movies or TV shows anything that touches my heart will make me shed some tears.. so accept me for who I am and don't laugh, just lend me your shirt to dry my tears after I make you watch the Notebook for the 10th time.
Eight: Last but not least, life is very short and I have had enough bad experiences with relationships and I have seen my parents get divorced and I have seem them give up during the hardest times. So dear future husband I vow to always always always stand by your side through the ups and downs through anything God might throw our way. I will always fight for us and I will never give up and I am hoping you can do the same...*well actually I need you to do the same.
And that pretty much sums up what I need from you.
Love Always Your Future Wife